Erotic is coming home after work and having your loved one give you a glass of wine and ask you how your day is, and actually listen. And foot rubs with lavender oil.
Peri Searson, Santa Cruz, Dental Hygienist
When two people have the same or compatible kinks.
Ethonia Cappelli, Santa Cruz, Network Engineer
A degree of tension … it’s almost like being pulled and pushed at the same time, and you can’t take possession of it.
Michael Olson, Santa Cruz, Library Technology
A pleasant seductive surprise, which could be anything from a sunset to your girlfriend in sexy lingerie.
Wayne Marci, Santa Cruz, Graduate Student
That hot Valentine’s show at the 418 Project.
Jill Miller, Sant Cruz, Retired